House of Being

A Path of Authentic Tantra & Embodiment

"no shortcuts. no spiritual bypassing. just truth.

House of Being integrates classical Tantra and Dzogchen meditation with Western psychological shadow work. Because you cannot transcend an ego you haven't fully met in the present moment.

 
 
 
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Our Philosophy

In the West, our belief in the individual self is too strong to simply bypass. We cannot leap into cosmic unity while ignoring our psychological conditioning. We must go through it.

A Crisp Path to True Embodiment

In the East, spirituality is woven into culture, naturally softening the grip of the ego. In the West, we need a different approach. At House of Being, we don't ask you to escape your conditioning through spiritual concepts, but to dismantle it through radical presence. We bridge timeless non-dual lineages with grounded psychological tools. By looking the ego in the eye instead of running from it, you unlock an unshakeable inner grounding, genuine emotional freedom, and a deeply authentic capacity for intimacy. We help you to free your life force and invite you to wake up right in the middle of the human experience.

The Three Pillars

(Classical) Tantra

Honor the non-dual view of Śaiva Tantra. We exclude nothing. Every emotion, desire, and contraction is welcomed as a doorway to raw presence and vital life force.

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Dzogchen Meditation

Rest in the profound, unshakeable awareness of non-duality. Step out of the analytical mind and discover the deep space of freedom that exists beyond your ego structures.

Shadow Work

Face the hidden, rejected parts of your psyche using precise Western tools. Stop running from your blocks, integrate your conditioning, and ground your expansion in reality.

The Path

Where to start?

Whether you are completely new to this work or an experienced practitioner, our curriculum is designed as a progressive journey in presence. While our path builds sequentially, you will find the formal levels become less relevant over time—because the more advanced you get, the less advanced you act.

  • Step 1: Introduction Program

    • The Foundation. Meet the mechanics of boundaries, energy, and shadow work.

    • Dates Intro to Tantra Workshops:

  • Step 2: The Tantra Path (Levels 1, 2 & 3)

  • Private Support: Individual Coaching

    • The Integration. One-on-one sessions for House of Being students to anchor the work deeply into your specific life challenges.

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Meet your Guide

Grounded Depth. Authentic Lineage.

Mirjam Maëla stands precisely at the intersection of Eastern non-duality and Western psychology. Holding a Master’s degree in Psychology and drawing from over 20 years of deep practice in Dzogchen and Classical Śaiva Tantra, she brings clinical precision to spiritual depth. She does not play the role of an unreachable guru; she meets you exactly as a fellow traveler on the path to radical presence.

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Mirjam is my go-to example when talking to others about Tantra. She embodies the true philosophy so delicately and vivaciously at the same time. If you’re interested in learning the depths that tantra has to offer I couldn’t recommend a better teacher.
— Eveline (participant)